replace with invalid args crashes python

[cmdlineluser]

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Reproducible example

import polars as pl

pl.Series([1]).replace([pl.lit(1)], [pl.lit(2)])

Log output

thread '<unnamed>' panicked at crates/polars-core/src/chunked_array/object/extension/drop.rs:24:17:
assertion failed: matches!(dtype, ArrowDataType::Extension(_))
note: run with `RUST_BACKTRACE=1` environment variable to display a backtrace

thread '<unnamed>' panicked at crates/polars-core/src/chunked_array/object/extension/drop.rs:24:17:
assertion failed: matches!(dtype, ArrowDataType::Extension(_))
stack backtrace:
   0:        0x1086fc2df - <std::sys::backtrace::BacktraceLock::print::DisplayBacktrace as core::fmt::Display>::fmt::hd10546497cf799c2
   1:        0x102a32b23 - core::fmt::write::h88deaf71aebf30bb
   2:        0x1086f5942 - std::io::Write::write_fmt::h2f457d3610ab3dc2
   3:        0x1086fc112 - std::sys::backtrace::BacktraceLock::print::ha706331827d8baba
   4:        0x1086fee6d - std::panicking::default_hook::{{closure}}::h6d90e1bde173341c
   5:        0x1086fe99b - std::panicking::default_hook::h18d84560171a6066
   6:        0x1086ff8f3 - std::panicking::rust_panic_with_hook::hf324d21c781986a7
   7:        0x1086ff475 - std::panicking::begin_panic_handler::{{closure}}::h0ed16e835e1e6d0e
   8:        0x1086fc7c9 - std::sys::backtrace::__rust_end_short_backtrace::hf7830e5bbc191c57
   9:        0x1086ff0e4 - __rustc[e5679b3fd213e125]::rust_begin_unwind
  10:        0x102a2f36f - core::panicking::panic_fmt::h8dbafa136fd3aa27
  11:        0x102a2f414 - core::panicking::panic::h1a61685b0da64332
  12:        0x103ab3262 - polars_core::chunked_array::object::extension::drop::drop_list::h180a5529582c6c72
  13:        0x1043f5525 - core::ptr::drop_in_place<polars_core::chunked_array::ChunkedArray<polars_core::datatypes::ListType>>::heacb2ddb9abe2ea9
  14:        0x103af84bc - alloc::sync::Arc<T,A>::drop_slow::ha0636fa5936e6316
  15:        0x1044e5445 - <polars_expr::expressions::apply::ApplyExpr as polars_expr::expressions::PhysicalExpr>::evaluate::h5216aea498604d16
  16:        0x104b5a4ae - <alloc::vec::Vec<T> as alloc::vec::spec_from_iter::SpecFromIter<T,I>>::from_iter::hbba88bb2e714ad02
  17:        0x104b98290 - core::iter::adapters::try_process::hbdbba28efa3e223f
  18:        0x104c542ec - polars_mem_engine::executors::projection_utils::run_exprs_seq::h564bce0b749eb00a
  19:        0x104ccc97f - polars_mem_engine::executors::projection::ProjectionExec::execute_impl::hfce3c84086d7806f
  20:        0x104ccd146 - <polars_mem_engine::executors::projection::ProjectionExec as polars_mem_engine::executors::executor::Executor>::execute::hc5288f5c3b701423
  21:        0x104ccbc04 - <polars_mem_engine::executors::executor::SinkExecutor as polars_mem_engine::executors::executor::Executor>::execute::hf2b13ba60d7ea173
  22:        0x104a48bbb - polars_lazy::frame::LazyFrame::collect_with_engine::h447ca1d5a7e5749a
  23:        0x1071ac13f - <pyo3::marker::Python as polars_python::utils::EnterPolarsExt>::enter_polars::h58843c3da8789e3f
  24:        0x1075b105c - polars_python::lazyframe::general::<impl polars_python::lazyframe::PyLazyFrame>::__pymethod_collect__::hb81a593fa0efe8cd
  25:        0x107374ec0 - pyo3::impl_::trampoline::trampoline::h523fd4eaeca03265
  26:        0x1073bfd28 - polars_python::lazyframe::general::_::__INVENTORY::trampoline::h092d9dcf3d228e46
  27:        0x10130fa5e - _method_vectorcall_VARARGS_KEYWORDS
  28:        0x101405eba - _call_function
  29:        0x101403be3 - __PyEval_EvalFrameDefault
  30:        0x1013f73c3 - __PyEval_Vector
  31:        0x10130296c - _PyVectorcall_Call
  32:        0x101403eb3 - __PyEval_EvalFrameDefault
  33:        0x1013f73c3 - __PyEval_Vector
  34:        0x1013057d9 - _method_vectorcall
  35:        0x101405eba - _call_function
  36:        0x101403d4a - __PyEval_EvalFrameDefault
  37:        0x1013f73c3 - __PyEval_Vector
  38:        0x101405eba - _call_function
  39:        0x101403be3 - __PyEval_EvalFrameDefault
  40:        0x1013f73c3 - __PyEval_Vector
  41:        0x101405eba - _call_function
  42:        0x101403be3 - __PyEval_EvalFrameDefault
  43:        0x1013f73c3 - __PyEval_Vector
  44:        0x1013f7254 - _PyEval_EvalCode
  45:        0x10145e1be - _run_eval_code_obj
  46:        0x10145e5d5 - _run_mod
  47:        0x101460851 - _PyRun_StringFlags
  48:        0x101460736 - _PyRun_SimpleStringFlags
  49:        0x10147d3e8 - _Py_RunMain
  50:        0x10147e867 - _pymain_main
  51:        0x10147e9dd - _Py_BytesMain

thread '<unnamed>' panicked at library/core/src/panicking.rs:226:5:
panic in a destructor during cleanup
thread caused non-unwinding panic. aborting.
Abort trap: 6

Issue description

I had some Exprs accidentally wrapped in a list and hit this.

If the LHS is invalid, it just panics.

pl.Series([1]).replace([pl.lit(1)], 2)
# PanicException: assertion failed: matches!(dtype, ArrowDataType::Extension(_))

Expected behavior

No crash/panic.

Installed versions

--------Version info---------
Polars:              1.29.0
Index type:          UInt32
Platform:            macOS-13.6.1-arm64-arm-64bit-Mach-O
Python:              3.13.0 (main, Oct  7 2024, 05:02:14) [Clang 15.0.0 (clang-1500.1.0.2.5)]
LTS CPU:             False

----Optional dependencies----
adbc_driver_manager  <not installed>
altair               <not installed>
boto3                <not installed>
cloudpickle          <not installed>
connectorx           <not installed>
deltalake            <not installed>
fastexcel            0.12.0
fsspec               <not installed>
gevent               <not installed>
google.auth          <not installed>
great_tables         0.14.0
matplotlib           <not installed>
nest_asyncio         <not installed>
numpy                2.1.3
openpyxl             3.1.5
pandas               2.2.3
pyarrow              18.0.0
pydantic             <not installed>
pyiceberg            <not installed>
sqlalchemy           <not installed>
torch                <not installed>
xlsx2csv             <not installed>
xlsxwriter           3.2.0