[wip] feat: Add framework for supporting multiple telemetry providers

[andygrove]

Which issue does this PR close?

Part of #1718

Rationale for this change

Experimenting with supporting OpenTelemetry as an option.

What changes are included in this PR?

How are these changes tested?

With otel enabled, I see these warning in the executor logs:

25/05/08 11:42:59 WARN GrpcExporter: Failed to export spans. Server responded with gRPC status code 2. Error message: Failed to connect to localhost/127.0.0.1:4317
25/05/08 11:43:01 WARN GrpcExporter: Failed to export metrics. Server responded with gRPC status code 2. Error message: Failed to connect to localhost/127.0.0.1:4317

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 53.44828% with 27 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 58.63%. Comparing base (f09f8af) to head (ce41884).
Report is 181 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...apache/comet/telemetry/OpenTelemetryProvider.scala	0.00%	17 Missing ⚠️
...ache/comet/telemetry/ChromeTelemetryProvider.scala	0.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
...org/apache/comet/telemetry/TelemetryProvider.scala	80.00%	0 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...ain/scala/org/apache/comet/CometExecIterator.scala	90.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
...apache/comet/telemetry/NoopTelemetryProvider.scala	80.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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